Recently, I was talking to a friend who happened to be an atheist. Her outlook on life is” life just happens.” I responded with “I believe everything happens for a reason.” Both, her and I logic makes sense based on how we were raised, how we live our lives, and what we know thus far. After our conversation, I thought about if things really just happen or is it part of our purpose in life. So, what is the difference between prosperity and luck and will it happen for you?
Does life just happen?
When something tragic happens, we ask why? Why did this happen to me or why did this happen to a good person? Many would say, it had to happen. Others would say, it just happened. You can be a good person and bad things happen to you. You can be a bad person and good things happen to you. We are not going to completely understand why things happen, but how we deal with it is important. One thing my friend and I debated about was if it happens, then it just happened, but my logic was since it happened, it was meant to be for a reason.
Do you have a purpose?
When you wake up in the morning, do you feel happy where you are in life or do you feel discouraged? Feeling this way, no matter what age, means it’s time for a change in your life or career. Finding your purpose can never come too late, however never rush the process. You don’t want to be living your purpose without being ready for your purpose. If you don’t know what you’re meant to do in life, then I suggest exploring life (people, places, activities) to further your knowledge of the world and what’s needed. You can’t save everyone, but you can make a difference.
Why is life so confusing?
Life is hard. Life is confusing. Life is unfair. But, life is meant to be lived. Even if you don’t know what you’re meant to do, that doesn’t mean you aren’t supposed to live your life. Some people just live. Others, live for a purpose. So, why does it seem to get harder once you’ve set a goal? Here are the some cons of success:
Lack of support
Ostracized from a particular group of people
Jealousy, envy, and hate
These cons can cause you to experience the following:
What if the purpose you had in mind doesn’t happen?
No one knows if things are going to actually happen. We want it happen, we plan for it to happen, but we don’t know if it will. At some point in your life you will experience “silence.” This could happen when you have accomplished everything and you’re happy and this could also happen when you are struggling in life and are not happy. It’s called the “silent year(s).” It sucks, but this is the time in your life when you are meant to learn more about you.